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九州之旅。那个时候还没有P没有T。

 

今天晚上将开始LJ之旅。

1) 鸡蛋用草串着卖

2) 摘下斗笠当锅盖

3) 三只蚊子一盘菜

4) 火车没有汽车快

5) 大理粑粑叫饵块

6) 山洞能与仙境赛

7) 四季服装同穿戴

8) 蚂蚱能做下酒菜

9) 姑娘叫老太

10) 和尚可以谈恋爱

11) 老太爬山比猴快

12) 新鞋后面补一块

13) 火筒能当水烟袋

14) 脚趾常年都在外

15) 娃娃全由男人带

16) 花生蚕豆数堆卖

17) 这边下雨那边晒

18) 四个竹鼠一麻袋

我不能convince来上海的人在香港竟然有二、三、四奶（不计在大陆的），真厉害，不愧有心有力有钱。 他说觉得他老婆有病，他自己也有病。

 

PS：T的大姨妈来了。

开始吃药了，医师说会好劲...

 

想介绍一个CQMM给沙胆... 觉得自己越来越像扯皮条。

T今天又做手术，这次是用激光不是开刀，听说很贵，我又要提供经济援助了。

 

今天决定去LJ。

 

普遍认为，小三和大婆的英语水平都很高，直达英国文学的水准。

 

Dear Lily,                                                                                                             
                                                                                                                         
I understand that you are going through a difficult time in your personal life, and I sincerely hope that you will find
a way to deal with it that is the best for you and your children.                                                       
                                                                                                                         
I do understand how you feel.  I also understand, however, that a marriage can only break apart from the inside.  I do 
not appreciate your attempt to smear my reputation and paint me as the home wrecker.  You know as well as Yale does     
that your marriage fell apart long before Yale and I even met.  Whether or not I am in Yale's life has nothing to do   
with the eventual outcome of your marriage.  I am sure you understand this as well, but you nonetheless sought to burn 
me on the cross as the scapegoat for your failed marriage, which I do not believe is a mature thing to do.             
                                                                                                                         
Your description of the emotional damage your children have suffered is disturbing indeed.  I cannot help but wondering
what you have been telling them.  I would think that a mother's first and foremost priority is to protect her children 
from any emotional damage, rather than using them as bargaining chips with a spouse or as props to win public           
sympathy.  Yale is the children's father and will always be.  I am sure he will always love them and be the best father
he can be to them.  Wouldn't it make more sense, for the sake of the children's wellbeing, to emphasize to them that   
both their parents will always love them even though one parent will not be living with them all the time?  I do not   
see what benefit there could possibly be to teach the children to hate their own father.                               
                                                                                                                         
You asked me how it was like to sleep in Yale's arms.  I also wanted to ask you, Lily, why would you want to hang on to
someone who clearly does not want to be with you at all?  Lily, you are intelligent, highly-educated and you have a     
high-paying and well-respected job.  So why did you spend so much time and energy trying to force someone who does not 
care about you to stay with you?  As a fellow woman I want to ask you this, don't you think you deserve better?  If     
there's anything that is worse than sleeping in the arms of another woman's husband, it is sleeping in the arms of     
someone who resents you, cannot stand you and wants to run away from you whenever he gets a chance.  So Lily, why would
you want to put yourself in that situation?  Once again, don't you think you deserve better?                           
                                                                                                                         
I sincerely hope that the pain you are currently feeling will subside soon and you can turn a new leaf in your life.   
Please remember, you can lose a job, you can lose a spouse, but you should never lose yourself.  And please, do not     
vent your negative feelings on your children.  They are innocent.  Please always keep in mind their best interests     
rather than your own.  You deserve true happiness, and I hope that you will find it soon.                               
                                                                                                                         
Best regards,                                                                                                           
                                                                                                                         
Diane       

今天终于知道B仔的金额，OK啦，no complaint。

 

T的好友CC又再怀孕，已经是第n次了。真不明白，为什么受了那么多次教训还是不用安全套，就是为了舒服一点？再次证明事后避孕药没有。唉！又要打掉了...

 

今天去了一个新地方吃饭，将会是新饭堂？

今天三八妇女节，听说女同事可以休半天。

 

占.金马伦老猫烧须，《阿凡达》在第82届奥斯卡只能拿几个小奖。

 

T最后买了一盏床头灯给H作生日礼物。

 

财险大涨，脱手了。

 

P昨晚又发短讯向我问好。

 

上海过几天再会降温到零度，从昨天起又开始下大雨。越来越不喜欢这个地方，不是阴天就是雨天，一年里头风和日丽、蓝天白云的日子真是非常少见。

 

天气差，大陆电视节目不好看，网站很多都被封杀，吃又不好... 陪我挨过这段日子的就只有T、影碟和菠萝包。

无论电影好歌曲好，都觉得真是新不如旧。T叫我介绍些好看的片给她，我最后介绍的大部分都是旧片。

 

歌也如是，我在1ting里听“海鸥”、“青春舞曲”、“我的心里只有你没有他”等，真好听。

今天经理竟然打电话给我，听说又发大财了。

 

PS：硬汉对OF的bossy性格越来越不满意，据称已到hopeless的地步。

今天玩QQ时发了这个image给T，T马上打电话过来，很惊讶的说她真是有这个公仔。

 

（Image其实是Lacy发给我的）